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I got married on 27 June 2009 at hansi , at that time I was a permanent employee of an MNC After marriage she forced me to leave my parental house and leave my job from my home town and find job in hisar. After 3 month I gave interview for hisar and got selected but due to management my company posted me at kaithal. Than she told me to leave this job also and find other job in hisar again. Everyday 2-3 hours she talk with their parents and her married sister (who is leaving at hisar) on mobile, many time she call her father for this. He came to my house and forced me to do so. I told her father that my mother is in illness form a year and my brother is studying at rohtak and leaving their at hostel how it can be possible to leave my mother in this condition. When she gets well I will do this. During this time she got pregnant than she asked my mother for abortion and told that she don’t want child this time. My mother refused. She said to me that she want to meet her parents and came back in a week. I said ok. Than she called her brother and went there. After 2 day she called me and told that there is a pain in her stomach I advised her to go for doctor she replied me that she went there yesterday. Than I ask her for treatment she told that she has taken. I told her for rest. But after 4-5 hours she called me again that bleeding start what she should do she went to doctor and doctor advised abortion. I said that just wait and I went their home and see all ultra sound report I found that first report is ok and normal why this is happening with us. Than I took her at my home and consult a doctor said that there may be chance of saving of your baby or abortion may be there and gave 7 day treatment. But she refused to take the treatment and said that she will only take the treatment of only her family doctor at her home. Than I told her to consult another doctor and she refused. I consult 3 to 4 doctors but she refused. After that miscarriage happens she took the treatment which is given by her doctor. On the day of miscarriage his brother came to my house and started torture emotionally me and my parents and warned us to destroy our future. at this time a was job less . I have provide all facilities to her on bed. When she got well she advised me for study we both took admission she took admission in MA As private candidate and I took in llb in Rajasthan University. When I took admission in LLB we both went their home and told all this to their parents they have no objection that time. After that many time she called her father and told that she don’t want to stay in this house for a minute just came and take me home and she went their home without my permission. Than i talk to her and her parents and took her at my home many times. In April 2010 she got pregnant again. During this period she torture me emotionally and told me that I m not think that your my husband. And leave ur study and started job again but far from your parental house. I said that our exam are in June just concentrate on that. Short term decision can’t change life we have to do something for long time to be successful and we have all facilities at our home why we destroy our future. Than on 15-06-2010 she fights with me verbally and call her father when her father came I was not at home I was going to jaipur that time for Exam. His father came and took her at her home with all medical reports. Educational docs and ornaments. After that they fill application in Woman cell on 17th June 2010 and filled a case on 22 June 2010 u/s 156 (3) against me and my father IPC 498a, 420,506,406. fir was lodged on 02-07-2010 And accused me and my parents for dowry demand, taking sign on blank paper, holding her neck tightly and kicking her stomach. And due to this abortion happened. We went there for taking her back but their family refused to meet us. Two times we take a panchayat there but she refused to come back even I asked her father to talk with my wife but he refused and asked for 6.5lacks for settlements. We have not this much money. i have filled sec 9 patation on 22 july 2010 and mentioned all this matter.So please advise me what I should do.

Respected Sir

I am Mukesh ahuja Mairried in 2082 with Namrata M. Ahuja, & my doughter born by 7th Feburwary 2083, In 2007 my doughter brought from hais office Sai Tel India Sakinaka, & renuate the home secuated at 191/2886/8-B, Tagore Nagar,
Vikhroli (E) Mumbai - 400083, after that they (wife & doughter) are haressing me, don't go to my made toillet, don't silp on my Bad, waafe saying i will not provide u food. I like to inform you that I will be the hole & sole doing expenses for home like electricity bill cable charges, home rent, rationing, milk, & also giving wife Rs. 1000/- per month. Hense also now a days thay are challanging me to kill you shortly. I am in To uch trouble, hopling some body will help me in this matter

Best Regards

Hi,

My wife dont want to live with my mom and dad,as i am the only son so i dimey her to live sepratly from my mom and dad.
After that my wife started make a big issue for any argue with my mom. i have already alk many times to my inlaws regarding the same but they are also in support of their daughter.
even last time they ge vilent with me and mom dad. After this i go to police and ask them for the help, then my wife given me in writing that she will not continue any communication with any of her relative except mom,dad and brother.

Now i am afraiding and sure that my wife and inlaws have some other thing in thier mind which is definatly against me and may mom and dad.

Please advice me how can i protect me and my mom and dad against the wrong alligation of my inlaw and wife.
thanks

Eddy

Hello sir ;
I VISHAL AGARWAL , MARRIED with PREETI AGARWAL ( 22 NOV. 2008 ).
Sir my wife and my inlaws misbehaves me on regular basis , her mother also threaten me with dire consequenses including threat to life against me and my parents ,yet my wife and me live sepratly from my family.
My inlaws interfaring in all my family matter & disturb my present living badly.........
They say that make me behind the bar while making such false dowry case.
They wants money from my parent-hood propertey and live the my parents alone to all ways.

I really need some help and advice as to what can i do and how to get out of this mess and bring my wife back....

thank you for your time and consideration...................

VISHAL AGARWAL

Hello Sir

My name is mehul i used to live in canada i moved back to india after 12 years and finally got married to my high school sweetheart. our's is a love/arranged marriage. her family specially her mama's and chacha's were against this marriage but finally they were convinced. the girl was firm all the way long and they had to give up. after marriage things changed drastically my wife was not the way she used to be and wouldn't act like the way she used to. we were out of town a month and a half ago in mumbai where we got into a fight and she left me from there for her mama's place. now they all threaten me to divorce her or else i will face dire circumstances ...they are a very wealthy family and politically influenced compared to mine. i know that i can bring my wife back and i even know that she is taking a harsh decision under presure ....my life is a complete mess ....i can threating calls from all sorts of people....i am not allowed to talk to her.....if i go to police they have connections there .....she cannot retaliate back as i said they were against all this from day one.....i really need some help and advice as to what can i do and how to get out of this mess and bring my wife back....

thank you for your time and consideration

Mehul

Hi, i am anuraag.I married to a girl from chandigarh.Her father is a police officer.She misbehaves with me and my parents on regular basis.Her parents also threaten me with dire consequenses including threat to life against me and my parents.They claim to be very well connected with the politicians and judiciary.They had earlier also tried to implicete my fathjer in a false case and threaten to do that again in the future ,incase i refuse to bear the attrocities commited by their daughter.He misuses his power and political contacts against us.I am in distress , kindly guide.

Hello sir,

I am Rahul, I got married with my wife 1.4 yeras back. It's an "Love Marriage" after some time of marriage she start missbehaving with my mother & me. His family member's also threat me to kill or say that they make me behind the bar while makeing such false DOWRY case. My wife and her parents say if u can't do the thing which she say then they mingle my self and my other family member's in 498/DVa kind of such women frendly cases.

Due to all this my family and other family members diowned me with all relation's. My wife & me live sepratly from my family, But still on daily bases she threat me & queral with me. She also say that ur family member come to my rented accomdation and beat her. This kind of things make me mently crazy.

Now I decided to take Divorce from her but how can I save my self & my family from this 498/DVa Devil.

HELP ME.

this is realy timely...........n a fr a guud cause......

Hi Ravinder,

I am not a lawyer so I can't help you much but I would say just focus on your daily activities. There are many important things in life. Things like these are part of life.

You just need to be strong.

-Ravi

Main ek madad ke liye aapse apni samasya rakh raha haun.

Mere chotey bhai aur bahu ke beech main 2 saal sey jhagda chal raha hai, aur bahu apni maayake main apney maan- baap ke saath rah rahi hai.

Ab unhoney Women cell crime branch nanakpura main complaint kar rakhi hai. Jishmain mera bhi naam aaya hai aur taarikh per taarikh lag rahi hai. but mujhey likhit roop main apne bayan dene ke liye bola tha aur maine 8th april ko unke office main de di, jiska receipt mere paas hai.

30 april ko taarikh thi, bhai nahi jaa saka, ab 4th may ko mere ko phir se letter aaya aur main 6th may ko unke office main gaya, receptionist ne kaha kiwah election duty per hain aur phir maine Usha Joshi ji ka mobile no maanga to unhone ek no diya jo ki aajtak switch off dikha raha hai.

note - bhai bhi hamare saath nahi rahta hai aur ushka letter bhi hamarey address per aata hai.

kirpaya mujhe guide karein mai kya karoon, mere ghar main kafi tention chal rahi hai mere wife ka bp low ho jata hai.

dhanyabad
ravinder singh negi